Miss Zoe Ross. I worry, a lot. Anxiety is something you dont understand unless you go through it. I love art, because to each person, art has a different meaning. My art form is dance. Everything about it, I love. It awakens the soul, it helps you breathe. Im loud, and outgoing; my voice carries. So when I'm quiet, it means a million things are running though my head at once. When the bomb in my head starts ticking, you'll hear it go off here….Whatever my eye seems to fancy, somber ramblings, and nonsense.
jizzayeee:
This makes sense. But it also made me consider, in relationships, the opposite phenomenon. What do the decisions you make when you’re happy mean?I relate these “decisions” to the dreams that couples have. The things they whisper to each other late at night, blushing and giggling, wishing on everything that it might come true. Now I don’t mean the ridiculous ones like “I’m gonna buy you 700 unicorns,” I mean the words said with conviction, the dreams that you both believe in. These are their hopes for the future. Places to see, things to do, cute gifts to get each other, how to celebrate birthdays and holidays… And even sharing their lives together. Talking about career goals. Maybe moving in together. Talking about their dream wedding. Their honeymoon. Future children. Growing old together. Being in love for all their lives and beyond.Even if half these things may not even come true, it really does say something about the relationship. What would you do for each other, what would you do together, if you had no limits? If you had no money restrictions, no time constraints, no people getting in your way… How much of your dream are you willing to share with your significant other? Although to some it may seem silly when couples talk about such big dreams, I say it’s admirable. It’s not always a sign of what’s 100% to happen, but it shows how strong their desire is. And oftentimes, if that desire is strong enough, those dreams will turn into plans. And those plans will make the dream a reality. The promises you make when you’re angry. These I relate to how couples act during fights. When you’re arguing with someone you don’t care about, all you want to do is win- to get your point across. When two people truly love each other, there is a different quality in their arguments. It’s not about winning. It’s not about being right. It’s about what’s best for the relationship. There’s an unspoken between both that says “We’re talking, looking at each other saying these words, trying to understand, crying, hurting, going through all of this.. for us.” Of course couples would rather not fight. But the strong, committed ones don’t have to worry about every little argument turning into a potential breakup. They can freely communicate what they’re feeling, whether it’s good or bad, disagreeing or agreeing, knowing that at the end of everything, they’re only going to be closer, stronger, and better understanding of each other because of it. Fights aren’t to hurt, they’re to fix. And it’s another reminder of just how much they care about each other. To be willing to speak up, to listen, to take the time to think things through, and fight for it. Yeah.
This makes sense.
But it also made me consider, in relationships, the opposite phenomenon.
What do the decisions you make when you’re happy mean?I relate these “decisions” to the dreams that couples have. The things they whisper to each other late at night, blushing and giggling, wishing on everything that it might come true. Now I don’t mean the ridiculous ones like “I’m gonna buy you 700 unicorns,” I mean the words said with conviction, the dreams that you both believe in. These are their hopes for the future. Places to see, things to do, cute gifts to get each other, how to celebrate birthdays and holidays… And even sharing their lives together. Talking about career goals. Maybe moving in together. Talking about their dream wedding. Their honeymoon. Future children. Growing old together. Being in love for all their lives and beyond.Even if half these things may not even come true, it really does say something about the relationship. What would you do for each other, what would you do together, if you had no limits? If you had no money restrictions, no time constraints, no people getting in your way… How much of your dream are you willing to share with your significant other? Although to some it may seem silly when couples talk about such big dreams, I say it’s admirable. It’s not always a sign of what’s 100% to happen, but it shows how strong their desire is. And oftentimes, if that desire is strong enough, those dreams will turn into plans. And those plans will make the dream a reality.
The promises you make when you’re angry. These I relate to how couples act during fights. When you’re arguing with someone you don’t care about, all you want to do is win- to get your point across. When two people truly love each other, there is a different quality in their arguments. It’s not about winning. It’s not about being right. It’s about what’s best for the relationship. There’s an unspoken between both that says “We’re talking, looking at each other saying these words, trying to understand, crying, hurting, going through all of this.. for us.” Of course couples would rather not fight. But the strong, committed ones don’t have to worry about every little argument turning into a potential breakup. They can freely communicate what they’re feeling, whether it’s good or bad, disagreeing or agreeing, knowing that at the end of everything, they’re only going to be closer, stronger, and better understanding of each other because of it. Fights aren’t to hurt, they’re to fix. And it’s another reminder of just how much they care about each other. To be willing to speak up, to listen, to take the time to think things through, and fight for it.
Yeah.
Ameeennn sista!
Amen. Either way people get hurt.